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First, make friends.����1 basic configuration, mixed society. a person's life, not a hundred years alone, always a friend, if you want to be a qualified civilians, as long as law-abiding citizens, that with the patience of your friends, are you willing to pay, is not willing to let it roll. But you'd like to mix a little something to the community, you have to selectively make friends, and friends in a utilitarian way.����For most people, circle of friends in the at least one doctor, a lawyer, a small official, one pol.ice, one teacher, one local ruffians and hooligans. I why so says, actually these friends in, usually basically don't have, General people friends ring in more is colleagues, and students, and neighbors, because we usually deal of friends, and together drinking singing bath of friends, also on this a ring has, if no must of purpose, who will to deliberately exchanges a lawyers or a rogue does? doctor, and lawyers, and pol.ice, and teacher, these usually seems to rarely with to of friends, key moments is can saved you of anxious or difficult of, some can saved you of life! to hospital doctor, has one doctor friends is worth glad of, save has wronged of caught in slaughter fee is trifle, reasonable medication with materials, on behalf of you contact he themselves heart clearly of medicine superb of good doctor help you doctor this is real not deficiency of help. The role of lawyers, we should all know, when are you distressed black letter key, he can pull you strong. Don't say pol.ice, often in the social process, how can not wet shoes, cars were detained, was checked, these things are basically a friend to help you in the Bureau, you will not eat much dear.����Teachers play a vital role for a friends of the children in the family in the future, are enormous. some people say that these general practitioner teacher pol.ice useless, for example, you see a physician, facial features friends can't help you wanted him to help English language teacher couldn't use. These problems are doomed in mixed comparatively low level of people in society. Can't these people do not have their own circle of friends do? features friends of the friends he is unable to find a medicine that? school language teacher colleagues and nobody teach English? you these friends at the same time, actually have taken place and the people in his circle of friends the intersection. To recognize more of the middle class, not to you a better opportunity? officials, rogue. Have an official friend, even if it is a grass-roots civil service benefits from a friend how much, and I think people know that the Earth. On this basis, bigger is better, and, in turn, the smaller the chances of a friend.����As to why there is a rogue local ruffians and friends, a lot of people do not understand, is actually very simple, at the present stage of society, many things in everyday life, with your friends to resolve, are much more simple and effective than any other method, but not unlimited use, and his side-effect is also pretty great, without a price only is impossible, specifically how to consider the price/performance, precise calculation.������ as for the more luxurious configuration, will have the better, such as a circle of friends in the Regal, with more than seven officials, bosses, ershizu, there is an amazing long, such as biergaiciyouaobama in the circle of friends, it's not called mixed society, is called the community.����2, how to make you want to make friends. nothing but calculating people.����Friends would like to make close friends all at once, this is not possible, but if you put your heart into the design, at least, can make a fair weather friend, and utilitarian **, to achieve "a fair weather friend" this realm. making friends is no secret, only the table like ears. The two are friends of shortcuts, a table wine, cooked at least face, words, a few drinks down, is not a false friend and pseudo-brother. But for others, Exchange down along his hobby, serving with. People living in the world, it is impossible to not like, if you feel that a person does not have a hobby, it means you did not find. He liked to eat and drink, eat and drink with him, and he likes to sing and dance, dance sing with him, and he likes to play with pure art, accompanied him on the four forms of poetry.����And so several times, and not have to worry about him not as you know, at least is a like-minded friends. details also there are two points to make friends, and listen, if you can observe all the better. Make money, you want to intersection of useful friends, miserly, then had to ask you to continue to struggle. Another point is to listen, it is in fact very important, leader: why is it so like met? because there are a lot of people listen to their speech is so cool, why and almost every patient psychiatrist friend? impulse because they can not to talk with, and can come up with a pair of interested listeners.����More and more fast paced society, more and more selfish people, how many people are willing to listen to your sick cozy life over there? when you learned to speak less boring, patience when you listen, your subtlety to be slightly smaller, and your friend will be more and more. how to recognize these different friends in the industry, says unbelievable, really very simple. Americans have done a very interesting experiment, and how much they would like to see a random people through relationship in order to understand the entertainment of a star or a top political figures, numerous test descriptions, a random stranger, up to eight layers, you can find this star or politicians. Is essentially similar to a friend's friend's neighbor of understanding star aunt nephew father and so on.��������But what is certain is that everyone can be found through the layers of these people! stars through efforts can be found, not to mention the ordinary people of different industries? or is an old saying: nothing, I'm afraid there is calculating person.����3, how to weave your own node networks. master so many friends resources, if inactive or key only when it would be a pity. Any mixed fengshengshuiqi people in the community, he must be both ways, at least on the surface he was a civilian gets in the eyes, can be generally impossible events, find some people who could not be found.����Such a person, is a Spider-man---good at weaving a piece of ourselves as the nexus of networks. what about the how to weave the Web? says short, is the universe move + graft along, with a friend of a friend relationships to help b, then friends of friends. Words are good, it sounds beautiful, actually particularly annoying, one not easily offended on both sides. So most people in trouble, so most of them are civilians. Weaving a Web, is the largest energy consuming, once formed, you are also useful with infinite.����When you take the Bridge take the line, careful measuring, prudent action, make a little more success stories, and before you know it, you'll find your competence is beyond your ability to think. PS: not blind faith in any of the provisions and principles. Road infrastructure has said a few words of the Chairman of the Board of Directors of Dan Wei Panther argot: never bowed in the face of difficulties compromise, there's no difficulty there must be a let you follow the road past, through the past, about the past.��������I really like this quote, has already done a lot in the face of difficulties and provisions appears to be unable to resolve the problem, but in the end will always find a way or walk or dress or bypassed. ����4, how to maximize the benefits for yourself. utilitarian ** real goal is to achieve investment to minimize and maximize the benefits. Some generous friends like helping others and themselves but I have problems because few face to ask people for help, this is a completely silly. Friend's basic role is to help each other, even one level is also a button to maintain friendships with each other. Do you know a friend, I just want to help him, let him throw her, you want to do Lei Lei me?, in fact, you're asking for help from a friend, friend will feel comfortable the next time ask you for help, contact will not be uncomfortable or be affectedly bashful. Over more than a number, my friends will be able to develop deep into a good friend.����This is a subtle psychological relationships, a lot of good use. another situation is that your friend by chance need 10,000 tons of smoke-free vector b of your friends happens to sell non-ement vectors, but b does not understand.����In this case, what would you do? my friend said, this is not good, and introduce them to not become a? I'd like to congratulate the guy, you have half as Wu Bai. right thing to do is, in the presence of a friend stressed all the difficulties, but he will tailor-old life helped him; stressed all the difficulties in front of friends, but he will tailor-old life to help him.����You play the karate, make a difference, passing two hardcore friends. other things, the reference implementation, and long past, will let the cat out of the bag.����So you want to analyse the situation, to selectively implement to maximize the benefits. PS: the examples that are very simple, but really everything I do is not simple.��������Playing with fire, walking can play a level out of the hierarchy, now that's a duck, mixed and handy. ����5, how do you differentiate between friends.���� order is basically like this: really best friends, friends of the friends of utilitarian General friends of friends. true friend is a dose of chicken soup for the soul, everyone needs, but not necessarily everyone can really own. One or two on every individual can make in life.����What if my true friend has a dozen, this friend that your heart is too much.���� this friend is to talk about, is unconditionally pulled you up when you're cornered, is first and foremost on your cell phone number, is your car broke down halfway through the call to wake up late at night he is your PC after being caught to find guarantors who first thought of one. best friend this is another, such as real estate owners, Party Secretary.����After you are sure that he is your friend, this is called the best ... friends party is similar to the death, especially from a, second only to the relationship between true friends, there are few and far between.����This friend is a friend to lend him money, depending on the relationship between deep and loan amounts.���� utilitarian friends is the aforementioned friends. friend general terms the scope, acquaintances or friends.��������Be strange bedfellows to nodding acquaintance, you can call friends, most of this friend cannot borrow money, but can be a small amount of money, that is, let it out won't be going back.��������II, mixing social accomplishment of their own quality.����1, how to treat their own qualities mentioned this, a lot of friends can't help but think of academic qualifications, work experience, job skills, certificates, returnees, accomplishments, qinqishuhua and more socially respected "Orthodox" qualities. did you receive the traditional education of inertial thinking wrong! mixed society, everyone is not nothing. Everyone has their own unique skills. A simple example of drinking is also a skill! above "Orthodox" skills, it does in a field of a particular aspect of improving people's quality, but it is by no means mixing all of society. Its greatest effect, is that you move towards the society a stepping stone to a door, it can prove that, you just do a range is excellent in the past at very small, it's totally can't prove your value in the community after! we often see examples in the social units, someone whine: MD, I focused on college graduation, outstanding work best, how do you compare with the flattering nothing certain. Actually can understand, you focus on college diploma, with a will and leadershipMix butter concentrate, do not like, you are within this environment, your unique skills are not suited to this environment.����Said some harsh, some people become discouraged, but I only speak with the fact that, after all, social education in school education is significantly different.���� I want to say is: why are you always complaining? why can't you make a college diploma, ability to work focused with excellent precision Jackass? friends disdained below: cut, garbage, I'd rather be, does not do such a shameful event.���� did Apple polisher is not reduced, refined Jackass is not a derogatory term. some friends are some of the inferiority complex, "I just graduated from junior high school, academic achievement is not good, all day drinking and playing cards online, playing snooker", "I would only play network games, dancing, others will not." ... Some of these extreme, I always feel that people should find its strengths and weaknesses, you play cards is an advantage or a drawback? you want friends and others, but you're a few years ago just to learn, and proactively avoid determination, never touch the cards, online games, snooker these seemingly silly thing.����So you do not, then I would like to ask in the community, is people tend to articulate what is point friend, is not touching entertainment wise men like you easy? friends say, first, others second bad right? do as you say, I'll take playing well.���� do not understand, I want to say that the vast majority of them are ordinary people in the community, learning book for this route is only suitable for very few gifted player, you become the scientific community, and eventually to fall into, fro, playing cards, like the English six levels of certificates are sometimes important! you know learning book that truth, is the result of your parent teacher student term indoctrination, but before you embark on social, you do not know the question.���� in this section the last, I was talking with the facts. list of ancient kings, you will find basically divided into two parts, part is hereditary, that title was born with a golden key, became King, most part is boorish of grass-roots people, many of whom are rounder, and penniless, and rogue local ruffians. They had nothing, so dare dare found its way to spell, they lost it cannot be lost, so a great deal of courage, they have no knowledge but have wisdom, achievement of national reunification. Those incredibly bright, reading, reading good books, clothing and worry-free in the community but not rich people doing? do counselors, Fumiomi, Adviser. Zhuge Liang, why not the Emperor Wu, Chief? Similarly, now that make a big fortune boss and Chairman of the community are what background? there are a few North of Tsinghua? leadership PhD subordinates only natural junior high school students. But look at them, in addition to the part of the descent, in the first generation of entrepreneurship, not very highly educated, there is also the day after tomorrow "Supplement", without exception, they are bold wise people. Could not explain the problems this? I'm not everyone can achieve to their level, their height also does not necessarily come from their hard times major environmental opportunities opportunities, its own small environment is indispensable. I simply stated, the vast community, higher education does not represent a high-quality, high drinking does not represent a high-quality, no thing is eternal, with high-tech to be appreciated and accompany leadership led the boss boss drinks are boss appreciated the leadership of two results and benefits are exactly the same, the key is the 2nd, and how to position your quality, how to pinpoint their location field! 2, how to locate quality people quality itself depends on a number of areas, but in mixed society, in terms of self, perfecting character is first and foremost, and IQ in the second. Also includes a lot of perfect character, generally speaking a composure, and second, to observe. Composure is for their timely moderate control of moods, emotions, personality, realize their abilities, and clearly know that they work in every case the role of, and does not go beyond, not retreat, as far as possible their role to play to the best. Observe refers to the observation of others, observing other people's personalities, abilities, strengths and weaknesses, and clearly what are the other stuff, to elect the right response.����These two points is difficult, in particular, to control their own, really difficult, starting from little things, treated these two as a habit, as time went by, you will gradually matured in others ' eyes. tips: out of school and have no experience of [in] life people usually do not know how to deal with all kinds of people in the community, many with peers, you can talk to other roles, such as boss, seniors, people such as taxi drivers, and so on no topic, often on some scenes, some of them even knew who were talking as though for the first time special speculation, and what it looks like you didn't talk about it. This is normal, everyone was from the beginning, here I am not going to teach you what to look for the two sides have in common to other words such as complex methods, one of the most simple way is to see how to address a special social friends, what leads to another topic.����First is to see, then, imitation, last try, even some mistake was fine, stick to it, long before, your communication skills will be unknowingly by leaps. when you reach maturity when this realm, you will see themselves in some sensible qualities, and does not despise yourself, but would never look at yourself, someone wearing a high cap for you to know the true and false, defamation to others despise what you said with confidence. On this basis, doing basically what events are measured and to learn to plan, steady effectivelyAdvance. more step is taller than the mature man, more than the man is treacherous, more powerful than the treacherous one layer is that you don't know, can't see who he is.����Such a man called being refined, relatively large sale of officialdom and the business sector. one is positioned to their own work. There are no bad work, only the wrong location, this sentence is right, but does not make any sense. Like I said, you are human, but meaningless. Many schools out, he found himself in the context of what they have learned simply cannot find a job; some people have been working for some time, found himself cannot put up with this kind of work.����So the people could not find corresponding jobs, struggling to find their favorite work, and could not be found wandering.���� there is a very good suggestion to everyone, this is society the University postgraduate research results, any a first-class University could not be found.���� before the age of 25 is indefinite, indefinite work until the age of 30, does not dongwo the child after the age of 37. before the age of 25 is indefinite. Means that even if your University is on landscape architecture, environmental aspects are not required to take in the future, maybe you can play a good hand to play piano, which hired you as a pianist in the bar, it is also a work, completely without regret on the white of the University, in today's China, skills of a significant reduction of the University, a student of computer science, may not necessarily know where the memory stick inserted after graduation, write a simple loop programs; a medical student, four years is nothing like the practice a year of harvest.����Before the age of 25 can completely relearn in one area, start again, but only because young and can afford to fail. ��ʮ��ǰ�������� Before the age of 30, you must identify a business, such as selling stainless steel is to be a teacher or a be a lacquerer because these industries need a lot of time and energy to learn and master, working place and at a time is not fixed, you can repeatedly hopping after careful thought, until you find one of your units, and companies, to the satisfaction of the team.����Because even though you're not too young, but you don't burden you toss can afford it. does not dongwo the child after the age of 37. After the age of 37, your way of life in the little accident cases, basic shape, I believe that you are in your area with some of his prestige and status. Most important, the basic stability of your family, child birth, parents gradually declines, you gradually become the home of the backbone.����In this case, caution is certainly not a bad thing.���� above are generally the rule, if there are special circumstances, for the non-mainstream, without repeat. a friend asked, I have certain skills, I have certain abilities, do you think I can do? the answer, the resulting opportunity is not the same for everyone, graduates can also sell pork North. Comprehensive analysis of their own personality and ability to see what he is doing something, such as the same are out to buy bread when surfing midnight supper, as soon as someone buying, gnawing thought games; some people care about pie thickness sizes today, if I get lost; someone noted the recent business selling cakes are particularly good, unwittingly help him calculate how much can you earn today, remove costs month net profit also look around whether similar stalls, how much traffic, how many people buy a pie so a bunch of data. Congratulations, finally the students you business mind, why KFC in China rarely fail, it is yours to market research and early stage research. 3, how to develop their own quality first of all I would like to ask a very old problem: If you're paralyzed tomorrow, your reflection on the previous days, and I know do not regret? I think most people are in some ways, more or less remorse.����Some regret not studied, some regret not chick-bubble are after start, some regret not take a chance. countless articles tell you, regrets are useless, to look to the future. This is bullshit, and regretted not who does not know? the key is how do you feel do not regret it, I think that even if you're used to playing games on the Internet, and abandoned his studies and barren love. That's not regret it, because when you play the game has been enjoyed and been happy. How many people are looking for a simple joy is not found, you can have, enough. Life after all, happy is the ultimate, we don't work hard as a rule, rushed a hundred years, how much time is your own it? I am not persuaded all negative, in fact, your "normal" to live is already contribute his share to the community.����Drug addiction is the ultimate thrill, but at the cost of burning life's happiness is not preferable, like alcoholism, smoking, and notices. after the events of the past do not regret it depends on what you understand, in fact, I think God is fair, it closes your window will be opened a door for you.����For example, we often sympathize with the mentally-handicapped people, think they are poor, in fact, in their simple mind, happiness is far more than you and me. after you are convinced that they do not regret it, is not to continue with your indulgence, but want you to throw out the mental burden and have a good mix.����From now on in search of a higher level of enjoyment and work. if you do not regret it when you go back, you can clearly see your character, weakness, and understand the failures of the past, to the maximum extent possible, to avoid failure in the subsequent journey.����Remembrance is a survey and summary, and regret, in addition to bring you down can do nothing. I really like some young people suffered many setbacks, they compared to peersReality, is much more mature and strong, sweet children usually is a relatively aggressive, arrogant, and vulnerable. I even suggested that those from small to very "excellent" children to learn the most important lesson in life: fail. This failure was not examined the second snivel, can't afford to buy luxury handbag failed, but hardly capable of destroying the spiritual pillar of you kind of painful, get up kids from this pool of spiritual pillar of reconstruction is very powerful. Language is bloody, but reminded the importance of failures and setbacks.����Once a person always succeed fail against larger, or even stand up forever.���� now that many young people have a feeling of anxiety, they always want to be the fastest speed to succeed or to be a successful person, always want to take a chance to immediately from the current difficult situation of rolled over and they always wanted to do something, and mention the word business always **. I don't want to fight this very precious **, but I really hope that you will be able to make full preparations, including any of the details, the most important thing is after failed once prepared.����Experience is not enough entrepreneurs, detailed planning more important than some plausible chance. having said so much after bedding, I specifically to talk how to own quality in social practice.����In social progress, progress in the social practice, North principals say---note at graduation, is told in the graduation ceremony, not a ceremony, society is not totally fair; community did not wait for you to grow! it may not be your major psychological and social divide in schools. one is to select the right skills, for example, you are a rural workers, you have to have this kind of consciousness, that is, if I have long been engaged in this work, in addition to money, what can I get it? I have seen some people do a job in an electronics factory, is inserted into several electronic components on a circuit board, every day, day after day. Such work can give you wages, other basic does not have, what factories, you follow dissolve. This day even after 100 years, you can do nothing of an ordinary ' workers. There must be awareness of learning, is necessary to have crawling of learning skills, II and III within one year, one in electronics factories do such work, a welding apprenticeship, five years later, the second is electronic factory workers, three learned alloyed steel welding, high pass rate, his salary and status of far more than the second.����This is the promise of combining work and study of crystallization.���� do you know what I mean? even if you have only the bottom of the work done, you should be looking for as far as possible be able to learn something and have a strong desire to learn, apart from the lottery, this is the most realistic you turn opportunities. the second is to learn to lurk. Someone is lack of patience, do some work as always for long, learn things by halves, which are the most taboo habits, hard work in the company, organization, and slowly learning to learn skills, and the certificate in turn took, that who you scold the supervisors in the company, an organization that is always to your yin's head is not stupid, slowly enough when you are able to grow up, you'll find his attitude towards you are slowly transforming, because he finds you key up. At this time you take a look at the outside world, n number of companies are waving at you, vocational high salaries is not a dream.����Day in the morning, you'll wear stiff suits, polite to bring a letter of resignation when placed in front of the boss, his face than it is for you to be outdone with him years ago after a big fight slam the door when you leave you much more cool. I believe that as long as you select the right objectives and perseverance, after paying a fair amount of sweat and tears, you gain will definitely value for money.��������And I said, is that we can do.���� before the age of 40 in one's life has four turning point in terms of academic, career, employment, marriage. studies from the University of there's nothing to talk about, apart from the University on you a bit more or less autonomous, and other arrangements are your parents and the second is that you are not in a position to choose. You are able to grasp is the academic study skills, will learn good skills or acquire a few of the skills, it's good for your future development. Problem is that this period not many young people willing to pay, we thought are not mature enough to plan to thirty or forty years later, a dozen young men, aged 20, was not so many things to consider, exam, crazy fun and love of friends, sleeping too little time yet, can there be so much effort to seriously learn skills. An electronic and information engineering, in the end to have a basic picture after chip technology can keep pace with the teacher to design and carry out experiments have very little, and after these people out, is a genuine sense of highly paid personnel.����But the point is, that fewer and fewer people to do, there are so many hard sweat, this, as long as it is this professional will appreciate. what is a good skill, this cannot be compared, academician of income may not be comparable to a five-year carpentry contractor, generally speaking, personal opinion, is a first-class universities by relatively less important, it is important a good professional, the way a good professional society in the future will be very broad, popular professional of a world-class University in the community is to lose. Such as the North of the archaeological profession and a police officer under investigation by the Institute of professional ... This means, you know? choose or study skills, is the first turning point in your life. But very few people will take this turning point, mainly ages and experiences do not meet the, last confused parents, you might just stumble from a broad road on the trail.����Even worse is that this was too much. so, so, when your brother and sister embarked on theWhen the tipping point, don't forget to help start, send a ride. what's more, until the age of 25, this turning point, also is in your hands! PS: selected professionals, has a most important point that many people tend to ignore it! in front of the choice of profession, the first is definitely not how fire is the professional you want to see how popular is how easy job. First to do of thing is: to home all of relationship comb a again, what seven large regardless of eight aunt, sound of full found out, analysis about which has power of, and has location of relatives friends in which area in the, then turn analysis look at can found was dynamic, found can found was dynamic of, and has avenues of runs runs, as long as real sound of, on candidates yihou can in he hands development of professional! such as you uncle in a large shipyard Dang Vice Director, you on analysis Xia he four or five years Hou is Office, is will has accident---says these some cruel, but didn't approach you on was calm analysis, as has grasp cover get, on reported a ships manufacturing class professional, yihou employment development absolute will smooth was more! employment is a turning point, was way school, examination studied Bo, in human manufacturing out of trend trick Xia, 33 age only began riding into social, get has a also is medium of professional, back a see, next door that kid 17 age dropped out of out into rivers and lakes, help clothing factory boss open has years car, people smart society has clothing industry of some routine and tips themselves home open has a small clothing workshop, now car Villa Mistress full has. What do you call it? read the book that many years, the cost of paying too much, the last successfully is not yet completed its most beautiful youth, if once it is not acceptable in this life is ruined, this bet is too big. So I strongly suggest to you IQ Middle, moderation, early jobs, opportunity in society, than you are much more chances in an ivory tower in one basket. Even if your location and nature of the job very well, as long as your heart, have every opportunity to do something.����Of course if you do not have to experience the best results, don't call me advise you didn't read the blog, you have to have read a blog that much harder, in the community you spell no? early without early employment objective factors a lot, depending on the situation of specific treatment.���� marriage is many people easy ignored of turning point, fact, this is very important of turning point! I hope Members in University, and in early pass emotional Shi on love, at least to to first love (does not containing single Acacia, and consciousness) this stage past, because first love although better, actually is most stupid of, both fundamental no any based on future reality of considering, just because love, this can in writers described by better to appears, can for you old has Hou memories memories, to it as marriage of required conditions absolute is errors of! does not excluded some people once success, marriage Hou happiness, but this chances can ignored does not on.���� quite simply, because the first love is no utilitarian in nature, and I want to teach you is: a marriage, is with a utilitarian! it is a very realistic after the basic shape of your life turn the opportunity, at least the chances of a happy life.���� I say, there must be a lot of people will argue and say you put it that way, relationships, love, and also what's the point? one of the best things in life are you destroy! NONONO! on the contrary, I am to teach you real happy marriage! I am referring to utilitarian and not just the economic aspects, as well as your spirit. hundreds of years ago, on the marriage, people pay attention to uranium conspiracy, the, after hundreds of years, uranium conspiracy, the absolute being outdated, on the contrary, we must further the meaning assigned to it.����More than just uranium conspiracy, the economic and social status, but also knowledge, awareness, education and other aspects of uranium conspiracy, the. a woman be wealthy in knowledge with a small drop out of farming-dependent farmers (not discriminate against the peasants ', take the matter on its merits) marital happiness? if you are happy, that's movies, it's motherfuckin art.����Reality is certainly not happy, so why not happiness? because people know that the Earth. on this basis, where the difference in the quality too much, say hundred per cent, at least most of us will regret. So, look for a slightly closer to the spirit of life partner are you? I want to say that the focus on the economic front, but this focus I am not very well say in detail, must rely on you to penetrate. Nothing but calculating people, you're in this society can achieve a high degree, enough depends on you, no matter it is the people, or to have.����All I can say is, if you can find the one that you both like, spirit of a similar level of immense growth potential or real, someone can give you the benefits of a life (or lifetime?) partners that much better! as for the adjective could get rid of a few, your own choices. this turning point, evil people think more, good people, we can still try to find a good in-laws, get a good wife. Not so extreme. But the poor don't have to be a handsome handsome guy or pretty poor girl.����This turning point, extremely important, make sure to remember.���� job hunting is also an important turning point, and different employment, employment of most of the time we were in employment, forced employment, doing the job you don't like, you don't like dealing with. outside a certain opportunities lie ahead of you, you are selective, that is careers.����This a turning point, a lot of people to meet, specific options, please refer to the third section of the previous chapter. to summarize, I have said several turning points, not only in life but relatively controllable, and if you get reborn, Won the award and the like are also considered turning points, is also correct, but it doesn't make sense.����These categories are turning points are not unique, for example, careers may have a lot of time, so don't miss one or two turning points in the form, the long way of life, there will always be wrong a few steps, lessons learned, listen to some reminders can walk wide.���� good health is the absolute most important sentence almost everyone will not object, but in reality, almost everyone is more or less, I don't take care of your body. the topic I don't want to say, but seriously seriously seriously seriously reminds us once again. Never take life 40 years before the purchase money, 40 years after taking money for life. There is no physical health and your quality of life left.����Recommended at least once a day to think of their own health, and feeling the happiness.��������Don't have an excuse if I do not what is going to be very hard or anything, as long as life has a long experience of lying in bed, your whole Outlook on life will drastically change.����Learn empathy as long as you have that attitude, you'll learn tolerance, tolerance, it will let you open my heart to, temperament.���� you often complain about the boss you're harsh, you often think that your friend is unfair to you, but you never have to ask ourselves the question: If over, I'm the boss or the other, what do I do? not to blab anything if I were the boss and I will give the staff a lot of money, a lot of holiday or something, think about, touching one's own conscience, if your boss, maybe you too much than he; if you have other, may be even worse.���� very often when you want to you a lot of anger will gradually calmed down, be able to understand each other's needs and characteristics, come up with a more rational approach to treat him.���� considerate helps you make more friends, to let everyone on your impressions in the long-term cooperation and constantly added. but sometimes we find that even empathy, you will find each other too much, too arbitrary, then also hesitant what? tougher for him to fight back. Considerate in no way implies just patience! actual societies, only one "good" but this evaluation generally mix doesn't work in the community, appropriate strong point, you will find will also help to enhance the status of your circle.��������This is also a subtle psychological factors are designed the way of. Measured from the point of view of the worst events no matter what we do, first thought of the worst result. This can effectively reduce feverish expectation to event success, can effectively reduce the frustration of failures strongly, can help you to calm analysis process, less the effects of your ability to overestimate.����But after you think, even if you fail, you can grasp the sense of improving your global view. for example, you put money into the stock market, business, and subjectively when the money you do not exist, when calculating the own fortune, not to be like Forbes, immediate market value of securities.����Unless your immediate discount, otherwise you'll never know how many of you this I have tomorrow.���� in the context of a certain objective, favourable as far as possible their conservative, difficulties encountered by as much as possible to maximize, which will allow you to make the greatest seriously to prepare, on a best effort to overcome.���� treat it as a habit, it brings you benefits would be enormous. we must be careful look very good chance we assume in a foreign country, a country, experienced 560 basic ready for Grant Thornton, the 70 's, 80 's first eat crab Fu, the 90 's, we have the policy after the rich, rich people completed the capital accumulation, a significant part of the General became a giant snowball, monopoly, or being go-Vern-ment offer amnesty and enlistment to rebels to become a massive wealth of dedicated unclear and ambiguous charge. Formed in the existing basic carve up wealth, social class, social order and rules of the game development today, you are in this country, do you expect to have a good fortune overnight? based on this logic, we looks perfect in the bottom of the pyramid of huge population of attractive opportunities are generally unreliable, some event dare not say 100% pennies from heaven, at least 90% there is a trap.����You have to think about, in this society, who has an obligation to help you unconditionally? helpfulness, it is to be done based on a moral level occurs only within a certain spiritual pleasure, there is no simple "help" of the word.���� I say that, did not intend to put all the opportunity to finish somebody off with a single blow, just remind you that the face looks beautiful when opportunities arise, be sure to keep your eyes open eyes, shine eye, converse (that is, giving you the opportunity to consider the purpose of TA do), consider opportunities deviations may occur, the last decisive and bold. for example,, you can easily believe these national in the of betting industry no people manipulation did? you can easily believe you of business partners suddenly call to you says has group cheap of cargo to sold you this pieces thing behind full no facts one wishes to hide did? you can easily believe you of subordinate sincere to on you says you too hard has should note rest has these words did? you can easily believe wine table Shang took with chest says can to money full lend you of friends did? you can easily believe sells soy sauce of next door boss suddenly day says to premium sales jackpot 1 million cash this promotions means did? such, as long as you calm thinking, and personally verification, you will get hidden in these foam Xia of real opportunities of! PS: many people does not clearly currently these nationalWealth is the how turn upside down, I can tell you that system for the common people is now quite complete, basic stamp out in case of sudden wealth to observe possible, but if you rely on your accumulation to 10 million (figures are accurate, but this means) the level, with the accumulation of all sorts of personal experience, proper or improper, specification, or road Edge ball, you can easily earn 20 million, if you find that money to a bottleneck, retaining your wealth, no system of this argument can only be a person.����You're asked, you understood.�������� above, are abroad, if there is no coincidence that is purely accidental.����Do not try to build up good relations and everyone this is one of the most stupid way, and the incredible people who is trying to do in the community of the realm! in fact everyone a good relationship is absolutely impossible.���� real social contradictions are everywhere, in schools, units, groups, people, and even family abound, but have very shallow. a good relationship and everyone, you put tremendous effort and time, to do an impossible task, not to mention everyone a good relationship, also means that the relationship between you and everyone in General.����This benefit is that the units on the head Street health model, such as charity Ambassador members will agree to you, and even the head Street, there is little benefit, and won't turn to you because you're the best bully, you who dare to offend. in fact, you if there is in a group of one or two "enemies" If you easily get additional benefits, such as respect, such as closer friends. As a result of human depravity, if a person in the circle strong, even though he was somewhat arbitrary, but also to get more.����But this hard could not excess, if too much easy to trump up a Countercharge against one ' s acuser.���� how to find some balance in this extreme it? I suggest that you can do as follows.���� 1, hates everybody hated people like people like people, this is the most common way of doing things.���� 2, pick promising groups, standing positions, especially in the two of you cannot afford to offend the people in this situation (bet). 3���䵭��֮�������� (Some people think that this offended everyone, but both parties were offended occurs only during the war, in the long run, victory regardless of which side you are qualified for benefits, but the more difficult. ) 4, the wall of grass, the resulting polarization, ends well are very comfortable, both ends down bad people, mort phase very miserable.����Who do not have the xiuwei to watch out for.�������� I listed possible way, this is not a radio, as we can, as the case may freely, no permanent relationship, only permanent interests.����Attitude towards money often see on mainstream television magazines newspapers educate people do with money, just rows of seats, let everyone raise thou this realm. in society where there is no such references.����Community will not go to the line how important how money is not important, which uses numerous facts tell you: money is the second in the world you loyal friends, the first loyalty is your dog. as long as you still have breath in, your credit card will not throw you go find someone else.����It is your money on your attitude. what about how to deal with money you? as we enter the first step in this society, you'll have to money to keep greed! this is one of your strongest driving force. It's hard to imagine an indifferent people money who eventually became the big money's control.����On the money in a State of eternal thirst can make you more agile, hands and feet faster and spend more scientific thinking, thereby allowing you access to more accumulation.�������� in any case, do not lose interest in money, under any circumstances.���� does not do needless sacrifice there is only one: encounter knife gun criminals, if the money was not enough to make you go all out, wants to pay. many ardent youth to understand, like you, arrogance contributed how much bad? this community what? see this problem I never rose to the heights, I just tell you: If you are interested in living comfort for a long time in your life, and that with such a man desperately is not worth it.��������Do not contribute to his fierce flame, you know, to have good prospects, how many people are willing to go to a knife robbed? death only once, I hope everybody can last in bed, when most of the people around me safely away. How to be an imperfect man we all know that perfect person does not exist.����Perfect directions I never advocate people to work, I want to teach you is that how to try to make a claim is not a perfect person. often seen in some companies, organizations, groups, one prominent aspects are excellent, but this is not a person you love, there are always many people who secretly his detractors, there are always many people secretly say he was ill.����If your boss happens to be another soft ear, this person in the company can hardly be mixed up. why this happens? human degradation, one excellent, so if everyone on to catch up with the dead, the extreme elite who will win the respect and admiration. One excellent, is slightly higher than we, but higher than everyone, that the good people willHarvest a lot of jealousy and envy.����In this case, mentioning the innocent? ordinary man an ignorant person acquitted wall of their crimes. in this case, a lot of people realize this, so as far as possible to the people first, to the masses, even to some economic losses, and strive to do not isolate themselves. This is very good, but after all I still can't eliminate the potential for confrontation, but to confuse yourself with these people, unwilling heart.����What should we do? highlights some of his minor disadvantage, balancing our own point of view.���� what the small shortcomings are, themselves, do not outsmart himself on the line. for example, have a friend who just jumped to another company, because of their comprehensive quality when around one per cent higher, and his boss is much interested him, but colleagues in almost all of them pushed him around, to survive in this environment, it is bad. He came across the company leadership to come to work late and leave early these things are not too sensitive, and often a little late for work, business or just do a long time, as we all know that guy's greatest shortcoming, think he's the thrills, and they began to someone close to him, some democratic evaluation like meetings, discussion on evaluation, awards and the like to him, almost all of them have the same tone: ** disadvantages, such as always late, but! his remarkable. ... Decision appraised as excellent, hope to correct weaknesses. ...����These minor disadvantage of magical effect is really infinite well, in fact, he made a greater mistake, but these small disadvantages obscure error, brought a great interest for him. know secrets of? once again emphasize, don't be self-defeating, first look at the boss's preferences, then as far as possible from the start with, such as clothing corny than others, such as not dressed, such as personal hygiene is not very good, when you look at others in Mr Bean animated-goers laugh at you when you dress up, your business skills didn't delay, disdain to envy your boss shows, the masses, which doomed road of promotion you smooth sailing.��������This is one of the key: those people who make fun of you, they forget that the difference between life skills and life skills! your life skills weak obscures your workplace survival skills on top, the saying goes, it's called play pig eat the Tigers.����Paid may not be able to pay off this is a truth, how many how many don't think of themselves, and how much we will be able to harvest, it is in adult education. in this society, you pay a lot of sweat and tears, but sometimes you have to face the keliwushou dilemma, which disappointed and sad I believe everyone will experience.����But please don't cry, this time, tears, salt base with only your mouth. I watch the chess game, pay attention to the last detail, Stone Buddha after each regardless of transmission and chess and win chess, were not the first time realized sadly, bad, joy, but quiet complex. I want to say he just doesn't, before you have to pay, we must understand that there may not be able to return after you know the results, is a process I, sum up experience, ready to start again.����What do you think is not, in fact, when you pay, you've got a lot of the time.�������� in the spirit of victory or defeat is a military strategist myself into a common general, or visit the frontline in action yourself into a cautious exploration.����Strategic investment of a highly skilled personnel is the focus of this article focused on hope you carefully experience, will definitely have a great harvest. investment home most needs of is what? make money means? does not! investment home most important of is vision! even you is a on make money knows nothing of idiots, as long as you to money correctly to inputs has a will make money of people hands, you by get of gains is huge of! Similarly, even you in life in the is a Ann copies keep has, and does not earned money, and hungry does not died pole does not with of ordinary people, you also has opportunities do a technology superb of investment home! here, I is not refers to financial aspects of investment, but a section more with potential of personnel strategy investment! neighbors has a Wang San, is a businessman, with means soon became party Regal, who knows love Shang gambling, years within gambled away ' houses, around people original all please he, now all be ashamed of he, most miserable of when to to you take 300 block buy m. Looking at Wang San ashamed eyes, you do not borrow? borrow and do not take is wrong.����Calmly analyze Wang San before you answer the question of the present situation and future development. Wang San was no doubt in the distressed period, but in the business of the skills acquired and not lost, if you have the right opportunity, he fall is not a dream. At present the key lies in his determination to gamble there is no going back! you don't borrow loan answer Wang San, but enthusiastically took him home to some of the dishes, drinking wine, under a few stomach, Wang San tearful, you know, and you've got Wang San for several months did not go to the Casino.����Take hundreds of dollars would not buy metres, but gather to Southern fare, Wang San was opened in the South, which would like to run.���� you talk to him one rehu, finally scored a 1000 bucks to him, clearly told him that this money is gambling or spend money only on him, on their own anyway, look at my friend pulled him a hand. Wang San heard these things, dared not temporary table tears, willing to repay a favor with extreme sacrifice? he developed in the future, once developed, and you're not sitting on a wealth of Speedway? the 1000 block of money, called the personnel strategy of venture capital. Analysis of Wang San, called investment appraisal report. Lawangsan alcohol research on the emotional tone, this is called a field trip for further analysis.BR> like this kind of investment, you often do, I assure you winning the lottery than you rate much higher! this example is a bit, I am afraid that some students thinking for a while but turn-bend, I'll give some small examples of life. for example you have a disturbing fellow, old wanted to switch, but he did some flair. Boss that you hate him, the following colleagues forced by boss power alienate him, due to do some emotional investment, you try this, really very simple, because people think at this moment the most can see the true friends. You approached him at this moment is definitely true friends. Just a little emotional investment, ensure you have this friend almost a lifetime of memories. After he quit if developed, will never forget you.����If not well developed, in addition to many hardcore friends, you have no loss.���� and so on, good academic record in the class of child children, poor families in rural areas, while others are disdained, at the time of being made fun of, how much you care about him, he returns to you will be completely beyond your imagination! do you want me to give you more examples? no, I think we all understand tacitly, what is lacking, just real life. you want to always remember: the icing on the cake thing, everyone, snowy weather, now that's a rare! carbon is not white, and after cool analysis, a certain grasp will be rewarded, which can be sent. You see the community contributions to needy children, who don't like to donate to "outstanding" poor children? do bad academic achievement of children living in poverty should not be any help? they are a lot of people, not hard, just run in the born learning book this road but others. Shameful is that we are never in the education sector to face up to this point, they will only be called don't study hard and deserved! pulling away pulling away.����Today, devoid of conscience, perhaps only come out from the suffering of people, who will be suffering with some of the people of a good heart. last sentence remind everyone, since that is the venture capital, of course, there is a risk, Wang San took the money and go after gambling, or developed may not pay attention to you, this is the risk.����But in the case of benefits far outweigh the risks, this investment as it is the best investment of your life.���� do actions suited to the age and own a 32 year old young man, after reading my article and believe you should be quickly to grind in cultivation, gain mastery by striking only after the enemy has struck, treacherous ghost realm, then you are wrong. young people should be energetic, middle aged, mature, old people, should danding.����This is one of the most basic laws if you violated it, people will treat you like a clown around, that's for sure, you know, a grandmother with no wrinkles is a terrible thing. in fact, a 20 year old young man with precocious is a funny thing, install b like a peeled onion, is hierarchical.����Play their role in the smart way, ahead of the right time to move on to the next role, is what you do best. for example, the two girls are pretty, and in the company, a beautiful and we all use their own opinion, crosses between colleagues, she was stingy smile and his spoiled you and male colleagues, is deadly, she also know how to draw the line, do not go out of bounds. Another girl was dismissive, just do your thing, never with people easily talk and laugh.����As the company's colleagues, you eat what? Oh, which most people would say, would like to have a wife, of course, choose the second, but only as colleagues, of course, would willingly do something to help first. PS: before going to a flat, if you expect to stay in the unit for a relatively long period of time, but never disguise himself and perfect itself as a positive and hardworking people.��������Colleagues what? it is 365 days a year to accompany their most time people, and people who can disguise for so long, who had no idea who? so are in the business, long-term cooperation partner before, don't pretend, with sincerity, this is a return to basics of great wisdom. This shouldn't be a low-key things there is a Chinese saying: sensitive to line, in Neuilly in speech. Mean more work, less talk boast of one's bit of contribution.����In the real world, it is worth considering.���� fat face of the Hill is a single word, put it well: cat walk straight line, depends entirely on the mouse. Similarly, in the present society, do you do things low-key or high profile work, depending on your BOSS. Is your BOSS if you can not change, then you have to meet him, rather than simply complaining about how he did not really understand how unfair. If he is a a fatuous and self-indulgent ruler, you ought to be subscriber, if he's Ming Jun, you ought to be Wei Zheng. Say a little bit shameless, but if you really have a heart of pure, then would you please when treacherous court official position, then do a tomb-BOSS, otherwise you can not even on the host computer, mentioning the ambitions? look at newspapers and magazines often write, on the human being, it is really me, preserved pure, that is right, but please keep a little is enough, don't play all real otherwise died a tragic.����If you're ambitious, you have the ability to change it again, this is the most practical realities.���� in front of bosses do, explain it well boss, attentive to helping the boss solve concerns. ... a joke: the unit is a hanging monkey tree, looking up, full of ass, look down, and was all smiles, looking to the left, all eyes and ears.Never underestimate the boss in this regard, I had a painful lesson. when he was young, just working for a company, making many young man will make mistakes.����The company many systems find unreasonable, has put a lot of very naive view and I think it's a reasonable suggestion, hand delivered to the boss, but boss noncommittal, is very frustrating.���� as time went by, the boss is thin, think he's not much skill, chaperones dinner drinks every day, being a very crude, basic company details are not familiar with, and not really useful one, it sucks, I can't help but be frustrated for all one ' s talent feel and think if I was sitting on his seat, the company will certainly be breaking the sound barrier.���� last I was in the company having had to be disappointed to leave. over the years, at that time the idea of looking really good now "hot blood". Analysis is as follows: if a company has obvious flaws or vulnerabilities, one can see it is by no means you, everyone, including the boss is not a fool, but this operation is certainly has a point, or hidden. We do not say, what do you say it proves? as head of that company just because some are boss ' lover and some settings are not reasonable. And how can these new I know! a person can be mixed to a certain position is certainly characterised by, some by some means, and if a people to a certain position, has no merit, he is also a strong backer, which is also characterised by him. Do you despise because you really do not know him.����As the company boss in the drop down list of friends and the aspect ratio of ghosts are fine, of course, this is the situation I realized after many years.���� new to diligent you are a new employee, you are naturally very lazy, but also very good, other 30 minutes of work, your 15 minutes to finish, but also to help others. lazy is a good thing, but you have to know your body it is normal for new employees, will not be additional to praise you.����I would like to remind you that, please don't be too lazy, if you are too lazy, you will be raising expectations, then you have become slightly slack, that we, in turn, disappointing value, the higher the positioning against detrimental to your image. how to do it? boss give you an hour to do one thing, and finish how long do you think is best? 30 minutes to an hour are wrong, correct is 50 minutes.����As to the truth, I don't have to repeat it? to warm the rear area a lot of people by wandering about, cold and warm themselves carry, heart-warming, mind alone, as a spiritual career almost didn't take into account factors of the family.���� I am not saying that this is not, but that you really did not succeed in life. no matter how tough you are, and when you are in black and blue, then, a warm light, love you anxiously waiting for you to come back.����This spirit is the comfort of your most powerful gas station, and those in the rear area is never strike down.���� after managing the warmth of the home front, it's even worth treating you spend more time than working, strong men and women to focus on business people at every turn, they are far more vulnerable than their appearance.���� objectively speaking, you need a place that can make you burst into tears.���� PS: this not only means a boyfriend or husband and wife relationship, your parents siblings also qualify. the last lesson: tell me about gifts in China, in China now, gift giving is a very large issue, one person to receive and send out numerous gift in life.����Look at holidays, hustle on the way, is a gift, but you cannot reverse it, reality to your stream.���� now that everyone is to be done, you'll have to study one of learning, and think of it as its own operational guidelines to get the maximum benefit in return. well, finally let us work together to condemn these bad guys, not just network will not promise. 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